November of 2017 was a challenging month. We had our bank account hacked by a thief and after that experience, I was particularly paranoid about anything financially-oriented at that time.
Todd is pretty sharp, but often he is fatigued and he always wants to help whomever he speaks with. We received a call from a third party doctor’s office telling us the VA wanted to evaluate him for his TBI ratings and PTSD ratings. I thought,” Hmm that is strange as he is 100% disabled. Why would they want him to go through all of that again?” I reached out to our Caregiver Service Coordinator and she wasn’t aware of why it was required.
I reached out to a few knowledgeable people in the care giving community and they didn’t understand why, either. I called the company back, asking if it was necessary, as the last neuro-psychology evaluation was 6 hours of pure torture for my husband. She said,”No, it isn’t mandatory.” I said,”We politely decline at this time as we are content with his 100% rating.”
Fast forward to February, 2018. We received a nasty gram from the VA telling us that due to not complying with getting Todd re-evaluated, he was at risk for losing his percentages due to each specific condition. This would eliminate his paycheck. We had to buy a new to us home two years ago due to our old home getting flooded underneath of it and our insurance refused to help.
I contacted them and got him into each appointment they requested him to go to. I sent copies of all of his treatment records from his medical team, (yes team of 8 doctors he is currently having to deal with.) I found out that we could use a Veteran Service Organization (VSO) and have them file for permanent and total disability.
To say it is stressful having the fate of your paycheck in the hands of bureaucracy is the understatement of the year. My hair is naturally full of gray now, I joke that soon it is going to fall out.
I could see the VA questioning someone who never goes to the doctor to make sure they aren’t being paid for benefits they don’t truly need. However, when you have days upon days of treatment records for the past 9 years from a medical team of doctors, why waste tax payer money and why take any sort of self esteem that a veteran managed to be rebuilt over 9 years of post injury healing and hurt it?
I was confused in thinking because Todd was PDRL (permanently disabled by the ARMY), that the “permanent” status was transferred to the VA. I should have known better, but I didn’t go to college to learn about the VBA and how it considers or doesn’t consider at all, the condition of the veteran.
Since I initially posted a bit of my frustrations of this on FaceBook, I found out that the VA considers certain conditions like TBI and mood disorders “soft diagnoses,” meaning they might improve over time and that every five years they will put the veteran through an evaluation to see if things have improved .
I have yet to see damaged brain matter grow back or severe PTSD be magically cured.